5 Resources Available to Seniors Experiencing Domestic Violence — Area Agency on Aging
Domestic violence happens to people of all ages. From young teens experiencing dating violence, to the middle-aged single mother prevented from working, and people who are 60 years old and above. Abuse doesn’t discriminate, even against vulnerable populations like people who have disabilities or the senior community.
In recognition of World Elder Abuse Awareness Day (WEAAD) on June 15, we spoke with our partners at the Area Agencies on Aging - DOVES Program, which provides specialty services to seniors experiencing domestic violence. After speaking with the experts, we have come up with a list of resources that are available to this vulnerable population. Here are 5 resources and tips available to seniors who may be experiencing domestic violence.
Look for the Signs
Physical and emotional abuse are clear signs of abuse, but what about the signs that aren’t so obvious? Workers at DOVES said a common trend in abusers is power and control. Oftentimes, people who experience domestic violence are quite literally isolated. They are sheltered from the outside world, making the survivor rely on the abuser, and are at times even forced to be secluded in a single room. Other warning signs include financial abuse, as many survivors aren’t allowed to have a bank account or manage their own money.
Mobile Advocacy is Available
DOVES covers the entirety of Maricopa County, and a large part of their work involves mobile advocacy. In many instances, staff can come wherever it’s safe for the person to meet and discuss their situation. The mobile unit will then provide valuable resources and information on how to handle their situation, such as lay legal advocacy.
Temporary Transitional Housing
The program also offers transitional housing for those seniors who have immediate housing needs. DOVES staff would be able to notify those who are looking for this service if there is room available. The housing offered is secure and safe, as the identities of people staying at the facility remain private. If this housing option isn’t available, that doesn’t mean help stops there. DOVES can use their mobile advocacy units to ensure the next best resources reach that person in need.
“Here to Empower, Not Enable”
There’s a saying amongst DOVES staff, which is “Here to empower, not enable.” That means staff will not only provide resources, but will also want to ensure the survivor can attain their rightful independence. Staff will ensure the person can take all the small steps to get back and stay on their feet.
Some of those things are making sure the person understands their social security situation, health benefits like Medicare, and if they need to work, assisting them with a routine. DOVES also provides virtual community support groups to program participants, so survivors can hear each other’s stories and know they aren’t alone. It can be tremendously helpful to hear what works for someone, and to even hear someone who has fully gone through the program and is doing well.
Eligibility and How to Seek Help
There are only two eligibility requirements to acquire DOVES services:
- Be at least 60 years old;
- Experiencing domestic violence.
There are multiple ways to reach out for help:
- Call the 24-Hour Senior Help Line at 602-264-HELP (4357)
- Text 520-775-1899
- Email DOVES on their contact page