6 Facts to Know for Teen Dating Violence Awareness Month

Anyone can experience abuse, and teens and young adults can be especially vulnerable to tough situations that may put them in danger. Our partners at the Arizona Coalition to End Sexual and Domestic Violence published many tips and facts on how to spot signs of abuse, and some eye-opening facts. These are six facts for Teen Dating Violence Awareness Month.

1. Setting Boundaries is Healthy

   

   Setting healthy boundaries is a fundamental aspect of building strong teen dating relationships. However, understanding what boundaries to establish can feel overwhelming, especially for youth with a significant online presence. Discover what healthy boundaries look like and how adult allies can support and guide discussions about them by visiting Paradigm Treatment: Setting Boundaries for Teens.

2. Be Careful While Online

   

   Half of teens have let someone know they are romantically interested in them by adding or communicating with them on a social media platform. For teens, it’s important to be aware of the risks associated with speaking to people online, and for parents, it’s crucial to know how to ensure safe relationships are maintained. Children and Screens’ Modern Love article has great information on this topic for parents.

3. It’s Not “Just a Joke”

   

   In a study about digital dating abuse (DDA), 700 high school students who committed DDA were interviewed and a majority said it was “just a joke.” There is nothing funny about abusing people online, as it can lead to a victim self-blaming and isolating, among other repercussions.

4. Know the Warning Signs

   

   There can be many signs of abuse in a relationship. Some include:

   • Threats to harm self if the other person wants to leave the relationship.
   • Threats to harm the other person.
   • Demanding access to social media logins.
   • Jealousy when hanging out with friends.
   • Any kind of physical altercation including shaking, pushing, or kicking.

   It is important to act early at the first signs of abuse. Please reach out for help if you feel isolated. One great resource is the Arizona Sexual and Domestic Violence Helpline.

5. Advocacy and Support are Always Available

   

   Youth advocates are always available to support teens and young adults who have or are experiencing teen dating, or any other kind of violence. The Arizona Sexual and Domestic Violence Helpline can connect with survivors of abuse, as well as the Arizona Relay Service 7-1-1.

6. Show Support by Wearing Orange

   

   Wear orange throughout February to show support and solidarity for Teen Dating Violence Awareness Month. #EndTDVinAZ, #TDVAM2025, and #TDVAMDAYofAction are other ways to show support online.